you:

Get over him. He's not even worth it. He is not worth your time or your tears. Yeah, you loved him, I know that. And I know you just can't see yourself with anyone other than him, I get that. I've been there. But why should you spend all your time sitting at home, bawling your eyes out and wondering where he is and who he is with. Do you honestly think he is wondering about you? No. Sure, it hurts, the fact he is out there falling in and out of love with other girls. Yeah, your gonna see him with one of his new girlfriends. Prepare yourself, cause straight up, it's gonna hurt. He will hold her a little closer and squeeze her a little tighter just because he know you're watching. He knows it's killing you, that's why he'll do it. Don't let him get to you because, well, that's exactly what he wants. Don't give him what he wants. He doesn't even deserve it. So what if he does talk to you, do you honestly want to be friends with an asshole like him anyways? Thing is, I know you still do. But give it time. Because all he would do is talk about his new girlfriend and just try to make you jealous, do you really wanna hear that? No. Screw him and his new girlfriend. He will be sorry. Trust me. When he finally sees you with some other guy who's not him. With that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend holding you close, he will realize how happy you are now. And how happy your boyfriend is because he has you the girl of his dreams. He will realize the huge mistake he made when he let you go, when he decided to choose her over you. When he decided he just did not love you the same. Trust me, he will be sorry. And don't you sit there thinking he won't be. I know you're thinking that. But I guarantee you now, he will be sorry. So don't go spending your nights waiting for that phone call you know you're never gonna get. Or that IM you know he will never send, simply because he likes to ignore you. He likes to pretend he doesn't see you online, he does it out of spite just because he knows it's killing you. When he walks past you in the hallways, he's gonna look past you, but you need to know that he does that because he knows somewhere inside you it will hurt. I'm not gonna lie to you, it will hurt. It'll hurt a lot. But it will hurt even more when you see her name and see how much he loves her in his profile. It's all gonna hurt. Knowing you're not the girl that's making him happy, the one that makes him smile that smile. Knowing you're not the first person he thinks of when he wakes up and the last before he goes to sleep. Knowing you're not the face on his background of his phone anymore. Knowing if he hasn't already, he will delete the album of pictures of you together. Knowing you won't be spending every single moment possible with him. Knowing there's not going to be any more late night phone calls arguing about who loves who the most. And you know what, today, tomorrow, next week, months from now, your phone will go off with a text, you will instantly grab your phone hoping it's him saying he wants to give the relationship another shot. But trust me, he's got too much pride. Even if he wanted to be back with you, he wouldn't tell you. You're soon gonna realize he doesn't care about you anymore and he won't be the first person you call when you're upset. He won't be the one to put that smile back on your face. And yeah it's gonna hurt, it's gonna hurt a lot. But you know what you're gonna do? You're gonna hold your head up. You're gonna show him that you're better than him and you don't need him in your life. You're gonna prove to him that he made the biggest mistake of his life letting you go and that you never really needed him anyways. It will get better. Don't give up on love quite yet. If you ever feel unloved, know that I love you and that I always will. I can be the person to put that smile back on your face. The person you call just because you feel lonely. You don't need him, you've got me.